It happened again. The same conversation I’ve had dozens of times in recent months. A senior leader in a church said: “With everything that has happened since the COVID-19 outbreak, I don’t know who is with us. I don’t know if our people are coming back.”
I’ve heard this many times, and I always have the same thought, but I never say it. Except this time, I blurted it out: “Well, pastor, I’m not sure that started with the pandemic.”
Silence.
I was watching him on Zoom and waiting to see what he said. And then it came: “You know, I think you might be right. We probably haven’t known for quite some time.”
Not knowing who is “with you” at our churches has been an issue for some time. Now, it’s become more obvious because people have left the building for an extended period of time and are starting to find their way back.
Having people in our buildings only obscured the issue because we convinced ourselves, If they are here, they are with us. Some were with us. Some weren’t. And that difference in commitment has become much clearer now.
Here are three of the concerns we consistently hear from church leaders and some ideas on how you might address each one.
“Will my church come back? Who will be in the seats?”
You need to think of the rest of 2022 as a restart—almost like starting over for some churches. Focus on growing your church with people who have not been there before. How can you reach those people and impact them for Christ?
Think like a church startup. Start acting like a church plant. Do what successful church planters do in the early days to attract and engage people. Go back to basics.
Social media and a great website are fine, and you should definitely have that. But the people in your community need to know who you are. Even if you are the obvious building on the very visible street corner. They know where you are, but they don’t know who you are. Direct mail marketing is not dead, as long as you do it right. Get an expert to help you. For example, if you have a lot of young families in your community, send your mailers to “The Children Residing at 123 Alpha Way.” Get the kids interested, and the adults will follow.
“I don’t know who is in my church anymore.”
You need to lean into your historically consistent congregants. You do know who is in your church, you just need to know where to look and engage.
The reality is, you probably know more about who is with you than you think. For the church leader who would say, “I don't know who is in my church anymore,” we would say you do know who is in your church, you just need to know where to look. It’s in your church management system.
Look for your consistent congregants—people who have been giving, serving and leading over the years—and lean into them. Many (not all) of the people you have lost are fair-weather attendees. Some may have left because of the way you have handled COVID, racial diversity or election politics. That’s okay. Pruning is not a bad thing. Find those who have been engaged historically and lean into them.
Many of our people don’t know their way back to becoming engaged at church. They were very active up until March 2020, but they have become accustomed to worshiping online. Our people have developed a new habit over the last two years.
Many of you have upped your game for your online services—you’ve put out a really good service every week. People have become very comfortable worshiping from home. Inadvertently, that contributes to the challenge of getting people back on your campus and actively involved. As obvious as it may be to us, they don’t remember the way back. We have to help them. Create a road map of sorts, and not by only using congregational announcements. Reach out to them one by one.
Make sure they know they are a valued part of the church and you miss them being present.
So, how do we find the people who were engaged with us before March 2020 but we haven’t seen them in recent weekend services?
“Our small group culture has gone by the wayside after the pandemic started.”
You need to believe that now is the time to fortify your small group strategy and stop having superficial relationships. Go deeper, have intentional conversations, journey together as a church through a study. Create church-wide intentional moments of engagement.
Revisit the discipleship process for your church. One of the implications of people not returning to in-person worship services is that we have not discipled them well. Spend time critically reviewing your discipleship process. Maybe even have a third party come in and go over it with you. Commit to making the necessary changes.
We don’t mean to make this overly simplistic. It is, without question, a complex issue with multiple factors. But there are some things you can do now to find and re-engage the people who were with you pre-COVID-19. Address these three concerns, and you will be on your way.
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